I have been engaged for a year now and still have yet to plan anything because I Cannot make up my mind on what i want to do. My entire immediate family is against me getting married, so do i have a wedding without them? Do I elope? Do I tell them to suck it up? I cannot deal with negativity on my wedding day with my family there thinking that I'm making a huge mistake. But running away and eloping doesn't feel like the right thing either. It's been a year and I'm still lost. Help!