I was really hoping throughout my engagement I would not have to post this but it happened. Yesterday I had a wonderful engagement party. Lots of friends and family came and everyone had fun. Then at the end of the night, I went to go say goodbye to my sister and she started to go off on me. I just walked away. Then between being exhausted and realizing that this was MY wedding and I was not going to let hear ruin it. I turn around and walked back to her and told her that she is not invited to our wedding and that she was not going to ruin my wedding day. I was over with her bull $%#% and her selfish ways. The way she treated my mom and I were wrong and it is done and over with. And then I walked away. I went and told my FI what I had done. His jaw was on the ground for the first 5 minutes. He said “okay”. He knows all the drama that there is around my sister and is very supportive and watches out for my mom as well. After my sister (who by the way is 12 years older than me) left, my FI checked my mom and all was good. Fast forward 12 hours, on our drive back home, my older brother called and told me he heard what happened and he FULLY supported us in our decision not to invite our sister. I was actually surprised that he was so supportive and told me there was going to be a lot less drama. Brother also said that we would not have to watching over our shoulders all day to see what she was drinking or saying.
Sorry for the rambling but I had to vent. So the question is, am I a bridezilla since I do not want my sister at my wedding? Is there a rule that even if my sister will ruin my wedding, do I still have to invite her? I hope all you ladies had a lot less drama this weekend.