I am just looking for some perspectives on my work situation. Sorry it is long.
FI and I are in the same profession. He is currently in a specialized section. Since before we met, I have wanted to get into the same section. It is something that I have worked towards my entire career.
Recently an opening came up in the section and I applied.
The issue we are facing is scheduling. The section has three people to cover 24/7 (although there isn't full coverage), so we would work opposite shifts. At first, it seemed that we would have less time off together than we do now but still would be able to pick vacations and have a week or so at a time together.
We recently learned that there will be a change in the schedule. It is likely that we won't be able to take much time off together. We won't be able to even get a full week. Our time off together is extremely important to us. We also do a lot of travelling. If I get the job, the next few years will be very different for us.
Its hard to talk to FI about it because he knows how much this means to me, and doesn't want to come across as if he is discouraging me from doing it if he says anything negative. He is still telling me to apply.
I am torn, I don't want to give up our time together. I have another 20 years left in my career and there will be other opportunities, although it will likely be at least 5 years before the next one.
On the other hand, I have worked really hard for this. I really want this. And I may not always be in the position to be able to apply for this, it is a physically demanding job.
Any insight, thoughts or similar experiences are appreciated.
Edited for spelling in title
The Twins
