If you have debt from before your relationship started and keep separate accounts, would you expect FI/DH/SO to contribute to paying for it?
For example- I finished school before I met DH, Bachelors and Masters. I had a loan for about 20K from both. I pay for it each month out of my account. We have a joint account for house, car, insurance...bills but keep a separate accounts for our own expenses and purchases. For some reason I would feel awkward using the joint account for the college loans. I am sure DH wouldn't care if I said we had to add it to our joint expenses for the month, but I never even thought about doing that because it was debt I had before we met. Is this weird? The other thread made me think of this for some reason?