I'm baaaaaacK!

526SadieSadie

Hey ladies!
so who missed me?
what drama did I miss?

JenGin74

That's weird. There was a thread earlier about people who haven't been around in a while.

[Deleted User]

These clowns came in from outer space and shot everyone with crazy clown laser guns turning them into giant cotton candy cocoons. Then they ate everyone. We are the only survivors. It was intense.

526SadieSadie

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[QUOTE]These clowns came in from outer space and shot everyone with crazy clown laser guns turning them into giant cotton candy cocoons. Then they ate everyone. We are the only survivors. It was intense.
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

Dude. So glad I was on my honeymoon and missed it all.  Haha, stupid aliens

AllAboutTheBenjamin

Bitch, I was just wondering where you've been.  CONGRATS you look lovely and happy

dmiller9274

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm baaaaaacK! : :) It was on last week. Matt and I watched it. We laughed and laughed.
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

<div>Michael and I got on Amazon a few months ago and ordered some movies that we watched when we were youngsters....that was on the list :)</div>

betrothed123

Killer Clowns From Outer Space is an awesome movie!  I saw it for the first time a few months ago.

dmiller9274

Excuse me for being a douche...I got excited by the Killer Klown reference.

Welcome back and congrats, are you going to AW any more wedding photos? The one up above is beautiful, and your flowers look so pretty.

kd.joseph

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[QUOTE]These clowns came in from outer space and shot everyone with crazy clown laser guns turning them into giant cotton candy cocoons. Then they ate everyone. We are the only survivors. It was intense.
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

I had to think of you Sunday. CBS Sunday morning did a piece on people with a fear of clowns, and they showed clips from that movie, and IT of course.

But then I think of you a lot....not just clown related things ;)

526SadieSadie

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[QUOTE]I've seen "Killer Clowns from Outer Space."  And... I still have trouble sleeping. Sadie - it's still pretty laughable all the shiit I haven't done for the wedding, but, the end is in sight.  It hasn't hit me yet, either.  <strong>I'm going to be a motherfuckingWIFE in a little more than two damn weeks. </strong> What?
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

Dan and I walked out of the ceremony room and I turned to him and said "did we just fucking get married??"  it was awesome.  Whatever gets done is great, whatever doesn't get done, you'll be too busy to notice.  I was very excited that I actually got to eat dinner at the reception but someone stole my sorbet, and I missed out on cake.  :(

kd.joseph

Sadie you havent AW'd any wedding pics, shame on you, you know better!

missy68

I know eggsactly that movie.

It's also the reason I knew who Grant Cramer was when he came up in the OJ Simpson trial as a friend of Nicole's/Kato's.

AllAboutTheBenjamin

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm baaaaaacK! : Dan and I walked out of the ceremony room and I turned to him and said <strong>"did we just fucking get married??"</strong>  it was awesome.  Whatever gets done is great, whatever doesn't get done, you'll be too busy to notice.  I was very excited that I actually got to eat dinner at the reception but someone stole my sorbet, and I missed out on cake.  :(
Posted by 526SadieSadie[/QUOTE]

Hahahaha that's awesome :)

You didn't get dessert at your wedding?  What the HELL!  If someone tries to hijack my wedding cake from me, they will be missing a hand.  Or an arm.  We're having red velvet and I've literally been having dreams about it.  I wake up with a big puddle of drool on my pillow.

526SadieSadie

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[QUOTE]Sadie you havent AW'd any wedding pics, shame on you, you know better!
Posted by kd.joseph[/QUOTE]

we have two or three more weeks til we get the pro pics back, but my dad took these, so here's your preview:
<a href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/11/11/5b98d76f-d03b-4c61-9bb6-47d1f61db2b6.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo" onclick="return gSiteLife.LoadForumPage('ForumImage', 'plckPhotoId', '5b98d76f-d03b-4c61-9bb6-47d1f61db2b6', 'plckRedirectUrl', gSiteLife.EscapeValue(window.location.href));" class="PhotoLink"><img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/11/11/5b98d76f-d03b-4c61-9bb6-47d1f61db2b6.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a>  Me & Momma
<a href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/13/1/2d05c511-4aa3-487c-a1a9-e88e193e512c.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo" onclick="return gSiteLife.LoadForumPage('ForumImage', 'plckPhotoId', '2d05c511-4aa3-487c-a1a9-e88e193e512c', 'plckRedirectUrl', gSiteLife.EscapeValue(window.location.href));" class="PhotoLink"><img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/13/1/2d05c511-4aa3-487c-a1a9-e88e193e512c.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a> From Left: (cousin) Mariesa, (sis/MOH) Lisa, Momma, Me & (new sis in law) Lizzie
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<a href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/1/10/a139c840-7e20-4725-ba4c-ba4e79d146c4.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo" onclick="return gSiteLife.LoadForumPage('ForumImage', 'plckPhotoId', 'a139c840-7e20-4725-ba4c-ba4e79d146c4', 'plckRedirectUrl', gSiteLife.EscapeValue(window.location.href));" class="PhotoLink"><img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/1/10/a139c840-7e20-4725-ba4c-ba4e79d146c4.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a> The guy I'm danicing with is the one who gave Dan a black eye the night of the b-parties.  He's wearing a fireman's helmet that we bought for the photobooth, which was a HUGE hit and worth every last penny

AllAboutTheBenjamin

Did your H's eye heal okay?

I LOVE your wedding cake, so pretty

526SadieSadie

He bought some dermablend, it had pretty much faded by the morning of though.

I liked the cake, the leaves were waaay too big, and not at all what we asked for, but it was too late to care by the time I saw it.  I got over it.   I like it now, but I was ready to cry when I first saw those ginormous leaves 

AllAboutTheBenjamin

We went and got Ben measured for his tux yesterday, and the girl who measured him told us a story about how a bride who came in with her FI recently lost her shiit.  Apparently, they ordered a baby tux, and the shirt for the baby tux came with pleats, and it was the only shirt they had for the baby size.  The groom and groomsmen tux  shirts didn't have pleats, and apparently this chick was sobbing over the fact that "it wouldn't match" for the better part of 20 minutes.

526SadieSadie

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[QUOTE]We went and got Ben measured for his tux yesterday, and the girl who measured him told us a story about how a bride who came in with her FI recently lost her shiit.  Apparently, they ordered a baby tux, and the shirt for the baby tux came with pleats, and it was the only shirt they had for the baby size.  The groom and groomsmen tux  shirts didn't have pleats, and apparently this chick was sobbing over the fact that "it wouldn't match" for the better part of 20 minutes.
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

oh good gaul.  That poor girl.  I gotta say I was a basket case, crying at the drop of a hat at the very end.  I was so stressed out, but that is kinda extreme lol

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm baaaaaacK! : Dan and I walked out of the ceremony room and I turned to him and said "did we just fucking get married??"  it was awesome.  Whatever gets done is great, whatever doesn't get done, you'll be too busy to notice.  I was very excited that I actually got to eat dinner at the reception but someone stole my sorbet, and I missed out on cake.  :(
Posted by 526SadieSadie[/QUOTE]

1) That sucks that someone stole your dessert. I would not be a happy camper.

2) Your pictures are gorgeous and I love your cake. Did you at least get cake?

3) I think I'm one of the only people who didn't get that super excited, amazed "being married" feeling. Right after the ceremony we took a moment to ourselves and H and I were both like, "Okay, nothing's changed, we feel the same. Can we go to the Keys now or do we still have to entertain all these people?" I am slightly jealous of everyone who does get that romantic feeling.

shaydenise

Your pictures are gorgeous!  Especially that one with your BMs! 

And I love your cake!

526SadieSadie

Thanks!  I absolutely LOVE my dress.  I wanted to take it on the cruise with us and wear it to formal night, just to get one more wear out of it, but I was vetoed lol

number55

Sehsat...I felt the same way. 

DH and I haven't been together as long as many of you (we haven't even KNOWN each other for 2 years yet) but by the time of the wedding we had lived together for over a year and frankly, the wedding did little to change anything. I was excited and happy and the ceremony was beautiful and I loved our vows but I didn't feel any differently afterwards. I also didn't feel nervous before, nor did DH. I wanted to kick my MOH in the teeth because she asked me THREE EFFING TIMES if I really wanted to to get married (like on the day of, she kept telling me I could back out). She said that she felt it was her responsibility to do this (she was also apparently upset that our pastor didn't do the 'if anyone has any objections' part of the ceremony, you should have seen the look on his face when she questioned him about it). I love her dearly but she is projecting her own issues (I don't think her SO is really who she wants to end up marrying but I think she has convinced herself that he is) on to me.

But I digress. I didn't cry at the ceremony, I was a mess at the rehearsal but that was mostly because I missed my mom and there was too much family drama for me.  DH cried all the way through his vows though. It was lovely. But I know that neither of us feel all the different. We do like to call each other husband and wife though.

AllAboutTheBenjamin

number, if my MOH did that, I would have snapped her neck.

Okay maybe that's harsh... but she'd definitely get a bitch slap.

kd.joseph

Its been about 6 months now, and we still have moments where it is weird to use the "husband and wife" term. But no we are still the same people nothing has changed, but my name.

Sadie- do a TTD session ala Rach. Then you can wear it again.

shaydenise

That's crazy about your MOH numbers.  But I know what you mean about nothing feeling too terribly different.  It didn't really hit me that I was H's WIFE until last night.  I was FB chatting with a friend and he jumped on being a dork trying to make her think it was still me.  When she realized it was him she said, "Did you say the thing about XYZ?" and he goes, "No that was my wife."  I guess it was the fact that he said that that made it click for me. 

I will say it was a pretty amazing feeling to have though .

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I would have been annoyed if my MOH kept asking me that, numbers. Not even my mom asked me. To my knowledge, it never came up on H's end either. And we also left out the objections part. It seems weird, and we didn't invite anyone who would have objected anyway.

I only got teary once at the wedding/reception, when I was dancing with my dad. But not because we were dancing, I looked over at my MOH and she was crying while my grandma comforted her. She was upset watching us because it reminded her of her dad, who might not be around when she gets married. So I was really sad for her and that she was upset.

number55

I was talking to a co-worker about something and she mentioned her husband and then I realized that I too now I have a husband. For some reason it made me feel ol - I guess I always associated marriage with being old! I told DH the story last night and his response was "how do you think I feel?!?"...(he is only 26, I am 32).

As for my MOH. I love her. But she is who she is. I am sure that I am not perfect, in fact, I know that I am not. I have been told that I can be arrogant and condescending. I know that I talk too much and need to listen more and at times I can be socially awkward/rude if I am not paying attention (I get easily distracted). So I try to keep in mind all of my faults before I want to wring anyone else's neck for theirs. She means well but she says things without being aware of the impact (on my wedding day she criticized my shoes, which I don't care about, but keep it to yourself) or knowing how it reflects on her. But she is my best friend and I don't expect perfection from any of my friends so I see past it and see how awesome she is in other ways.

Edited for stupid typos, to =/= too. Sigh.

LessThanZero

A bit of a P&R because I'm running to lunch in a minute, but congrats Sadie!! Looking forward to the pro pics.

[Deleted User]

Hmm, well you're a better personal than me, numbers. I'm pretty sure I would have told someone to eff off if they questioned me repeatedly.

number55

I just realize that I am a douche because I never actually posted about Sadie in this thread...sorry for the thread jack.

Sadie: I really like your cake, it is beautiful. And I am so happy that you had a good day...do you feel a great sense of relief and relaxation now that it is all said and done?

526SadieSadie

Numbers, I didn't get the "you can still back out" from my MOH, but I got it from her family.  Her grandma died a couple days after the wedding and Dan and I went to the wake.  She re-introduced me to her aunt (I haven't seen her in a couple years) and said "Aunt Elda, you remember Gianna?  She just got married on Sunday, this is her husband, Dan."  I gave her aunt a kiss on the cheek and my condolences and she said :
"You just got married, eh? Give it 20 years, that's how long it took me to wise up."

I expected nothing less from her.  I don't think she knew that I know she was the one cheating on her husband.

I did feel a kind of relief but now I have literally nothing to do at work, nothing to plan.  I don't feel different but it's pretty surreal to have a husband all of a sudden.  I can't wait to get the married certificate