I lost my grandfather to cancer about 2 years ago. We were really close and I never imagined having my wedding without him. I want to include him in my special day some how, but I don't want it to be wierd or morbid. I tried discussing this topic with my fiance but he wasn't very helpful. His comment was, "isn't it wierd to be thinking about including a dead person in our wedding? Its supposed to be a happy day." I understand what he means (he wasn't trying to be mean, he just has trouble expressing his opinion sometimes), but I still want him included somehow. I am hoping that if I can come up with a great idea that will keep the day happy, I can convince him to allow me to include him. This is where you come in. Any and all suggestions would be greatly appreciated.