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Please critique my food/reception timeline!!

We're having a morning ceremony and a lunch reception. Our ceremony and reception are in different buildings, but on the same grounds. It's a museum (a historic site) with 9 buildings. we're getting married in a court house built in 1904 and then moving to the community hall built in the late 1870's for the reception. we're planning on leaving a bit of time in between the ceremony and reception to do photos.The guests have free range to wander the grounds and view the other buildings in the museum, as well as the exhibits. i am thinking i should offer beverages and maybe a little snack to help keep them occupied, but im not sure what will fit in. we've also decided to go for a plated and served lunch, but we're thinking of opting out of a first course (like a salad) because we don't think we need to serve a cocktail hour, followed immediately by an appetizer, and then a full plated meal especially since it's a lunch reception. the meals are heavy, plus they come with dessert and we're thinking of having a wedding cake on top of that. i don't know where to fit all of this food in and i think i need advice on when I should serve the different courses. According to what I was originally thinking it would go something like this:

11 am - ceremony begins
1120 am - ceremony ends
1130 - refreshments and hors d'oeuvres in the hall (or outside if it's nice out? thoughts?). Guests either choose to stay outside in the sun, go inside the hall to sit down, or to visit the other historic buildings and exhibits. im not sure if this is going to cause a problem, but we'll be within sight of our guests getting our pictures taken. do you think guests will want to take that time to socialize with us or will we be able to get our pictures done?
1230 - begin to bring guests to be seated inside the hall
1245 - main course is served
130 - champagne toast (we will have the servers pass these out towards the end of the meal)
135 - meal dessert is served
145 - mingle with the guests with background music playing, moving from group to group.
230 - cake cutting
the rest of the time for socializing and celebrating. guests will be welcome to view the rest of the museum they may have missed, and bride & groom hope to leave by/before 4 p.m.

does it make sense that there is no 1st course? what would your critiques be in order to improve this food/reception timeline?
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Re: Please critique my food/reception timeline!!

  • AbbyjensenAbbyjensen member
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    edited December 2011
    I think that no first course is fine with a lunch reception. However, if the food is heavier and more "dinner-y", I think a salad would be a natural beginning to the meal. I don't think you need an appetizer.

    If I were you, I would serve simple refreshments (water, maybe crackers and cheese, just a little something) during your photo hour. I would serve them in the hall where lunch will be served. It seems like the guests will be busy during the wait period, so I would be less concerned about serving food.

    As for the pictures issue- I'm not sure if there would be a conflict. I personally would understand as a guest and not bother you, but I'm pretty easy going.
  • fallbride1109fallbride1109 member
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    edited December 2011

    Can you substitute the wedding cake for dessert and maybe get a credit for the dessert to go towards something else?  Because I would do champagne and wedding cake instead personally, or else make the meal dessert something like fruit or sorbet or something very light.  You definitely need to provide something for that hour while you take pictures (I like the PP's suggestions).  Your guests may watch the photos but you should be able to take them just fine.

    You might want to ask your venue if they think less than an hour for lunch is enough time.  I also like the idea of a salad but it's not crucial.  Otherwise, it sounds like you have a lovely day planned!  :)

  • FaithCaitlinFaithCaitlin member
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    edited December 2011
    I think it's fine to skip the first course. I'd provide them with some appetizers.

    I think the rest looks great!

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  • AbbeyS2011AbbeyS2011 member
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    edited December 2011
    I agree with stephie about skipping the meal dessert since you will be serving cake about an hour later.  I also agree with you skipping a first course - just have some light refreshments like a cheese/cracker/fruit display and something to drink before lunch, then lunch and wedding cake afterwards.

    Sounds absolutely lovely!
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