I'm having a buffet dinner and a full bar at my cocktail hour. My reception is on a yacht and the yacht coordinator suggested butler passed hor'd oeuvres are so much nicer than an hor'd oeuvres display. Its going to be a small reception-only 60 people or so. I'm not sure if I should go with butler passed hor'd ourvres or a display of food or both. What do you think?