Has anyone thought of themselves or known someone who has gone as far as postponing their wedding due to weight gain? As if they felt so bad about themselves that it came down to that? I'm really at a wall right now. My wedding is next weekend and I've been feeling the worse about myself. I feel so ugly and fat, and I've said to my MOH, finance and mother that I want to postpone the wedding because of how I look and feel about myself. I'm so miserable right now and I'm afraid I'm going to be miserable on my wedding day.