My fiance and I finally decided to get a personal trainer, totally worth it!! Our neighbors who are engaged too started slimming down and we asked them their secret, a private personal trainer!! So we started, my fiance is melting fat off of him faster than seems fair!! I have been getting totally frustrated that I have not been able to transform physically as fast as him! He literally is already down a whole pants size and everyone can see how different he looks! Truth, I some times want to secretlyadd fats into his meals. Women just lose fat slower than men!! So frustrated!