I really should stop worrying!!

netties

So i don't understand what is wrong with me???!!! i'm getting married in 4 weeks and it seems as though everyday I say to myself that I"m going to eat healthy and i will lose the weight, I'm a bigger girl....I'm totally excited that i'm getting married...but i don't know maybe i need counseling to deal with food or something...o well i don't what to do, if anyone out there has some words of wisdom i would greatly appreciate it!!! Good luck to all the brides out there

Lilou902

IF you are happy with yourself and healthy, then I wouldn't worry about it.  This is a perception out there (mostly from media, movies etc) that every bride should be a size 2.  It's not true.  I think that as long as you're healthy and happy with yourself then you are good to go!  I wanted to  lose 40-50 pounds for my wedding, but i only lost 20.  I am a bit disappointed, but I am over it now.  I am much healthier and have learned alot along the way.  I am going to continue losing weight, but because I want to be healthy.  I the way I look is just going to be a bonus!  I feel so much better when I eat a clean diet and I want to continue that way.  You have to stop comparing yourself to others.