I have decided to lose 35-45 lbs before my big day (9.24.11) and Im looking for another bride to be so we can hold each other accountable by email, or text. I think this would be a great way to pair up and yes, I want to make my future husband proud, so he knows I can stick to something, hehe. I am located in the San Diego area, if you are in the SD area as well that would be great but defiantly not necessary.