I have only been married 8 months and I am already concidering renewing my vows.
At the time of my wedding, my dad and I were not on speaking terms. As a result he was uninvited to the wedding and he, my brother and sister (who was one of the bridesmaids) were not at my wedding. I felt off the whole day of my wedding, and I know not having my imediate family at the wedding was a major part (that and the guest count, mentioned later) Because of the tension between my dad and I, most of my side of the family did not show.
My dad and I are on better terms now and we have discussed renewing our vows for the sake of having him, my brother and sister witness our "wedding" Nothing is set in stone, but I am curious to how I will go about the renewal.
For our actual wedding,My H and I (tried) to do the whole shebang, with renting out a nice venue, getting an expensive cake, photographer, and DJ. My Godmother helped us with the wedding, and walked me down the aisle. After all the money that went into it, only 48 people showed, out of 140. My dad talked about doing an all out Italian wedding. But after my last experience, I would happy with something small and only inviting maybe 20 close relatives.