So, FI and I are writing our own vows. Fi is a little nervous about this, because he said he's afraid his vows will "come up short", or not be long enough, or "good enough", or whatever. I don't know where he's getting these crazy thoughts.
Anyway, we were talking last night and he said he wants me to read them, after he writes them to give him the "ok". I really don't want to do this, I think that kind of takes the fun out of it, if I know what he's going to say before we get up there in front of each other. Especially if he expects me to "proofread" them, so to speak. I don't want it that sketched out.
He also wanted to read mine first, to get an idea of what to write. I didn't really want to let him read mine either, because again, I feel like that kind of takes away some of the "aww" moment.
I've thought about telling him to maybe find a friend to run it by, instead of me..?
I want to help FI as much as possible, but I still want it to be a special moment during our ceremony. I told him to google writing our own wedding vows, to see what other people have done.
WWYD? Opinions?