I just wanted to share what I just went through to try to save someone else from the aggrivation.I'm getting married in 10 days and the priest JUST calls me today to tell me that my flower girl is NOT ALLOWED to scatter any flowers ( real or fake). Even though they will be on the aisle runner, he said that the only way we could have her do that is if someone stayed behind and made sure that every single petal was picked up. We met with him before & he never mentioned anything about it...and even knew we were having a flower girl.So, please, check to make sure your ceremony site will actually allow your FG to do this. It seemed like a no-brainer to me that a FG= dropped flowers, but I was wrong ! Now I have to try to either make a pomador ( sp?) or find something else that is flowers for my FG to hold.