I'm trying to decide on flowers for the corsages for the women in the family (godmother, FSIL etc)As most of them don't know what they are wearing yet we want to order corsages that will match what they wear no matter what, but we want them to be different than the mothers of the bride. We were thinking freesia, but the florist said they wouldn't hold up, that it would be wrecked with the first hug. Is that true? Our next option might be Gardenia, will the florist say the same thing? Will Gardenia hold up? The florist keeps suggesting roses (same as the rest of the bridal party) but I think that's b/c they know they will hold up well. She's afraid to be blamed if they don't last as long as the roses I'm sure. Any advice on a white flower (not carnations, roses or orchids) that will last throughout the night and wont freak my florist out to make?cheers!