The main flower in my bouquets is a sunflower and I want to do a single sunflower head as the corsage/bout. My fiance thinks having a sunflower pinned to his chest is "too girly" so I had an idea to use some wheat stems tieds together as bouts for him, the groomsmen, and the dads. Would it be ok to do sunflowers for the women, and the wheat ones for the men???