One of my MOH is stepping up and organizing a shower in July for me (along with the Bach Party). She is wanting to know my guest list and addys soon. While I was organizing this, I also started to do a guest list for my other shower that my aunt is throwing. That one will be mainly family instead of friends (minus bridesmaids cus they are invited.) Here is the deal. One of FI's groomsmen is his cousin who is in Lubbock. His wife is not due until the end of August. For obvious reasons, she can not attend our wedding. She can not travel by plane/car from beg-middle of June on out. She invited me to her BP and festivities. I want to invite her, but I know she can't come. Should I send her an invite, knowing she can't make it due to how far along she is in her preg.? I don't want to feel like I'm being rude for not inviting her.
What would you all do?