So, I am not sure if I am the only one that feels this way, but I don't want to do either a first dance or a father/daughter dance. I don't feel comfortable being in front of large groups; it is already going to be really hard and uncomfortable to walk down the aisle in front of all those people staring at me. My fiance isn't too keen on having a first dance either, but says we probably should do it because people will think we are weird; also he thinks if I don't have the father/daughter dance that my dad will be upset. I haven't mentioned anything to my dad because we just don't communicate about our feelings, and I don't know how to bring up the topic. Plus, I worked a lot of weddings at a country club and thought how annoying it is to make your guests sit through almost 15 minutes of just watching two people dance, awkward! Anyway could someone give me some advice or opinions on this subject?