My father and I are not super close, nor have we ever been. My mother raised me however, I want to include my father in my wedding because I don't think that it is the place to rehash family drama. However, It is difficult finding a father daughter song that is not talking about the father giving away his little girl and how difficult it is. Everyone at the reception will know that my father was not there my whole life and I don't want it to appear that we are acting like it is something that it isn't nor ever was.