One of my bridesmaids is a pampered chef consultant. She wants to throw me a pampered chef shower, where basically, she hosts a show to sell her products, but then guests also see a list of things me & my fiancee registered for and can buy them for us. I've been to a pampered chef shower before, and honestly, it was awkward. I felt like I had to buy something for myself AND the bride (who I would have bought other gifts for anyways...but not necissarily pampered chef items). I would rather invite my friends to a traditional shower and/or a bridal/leingerie shower.
How do I tell this bridesmaid that I'm not interested...or am I stuck with a shower that don't want?