In one of the weddings I am in as a bridesmaid, the bride and groom have requested a joint bachelor/bachelorette party. Not a Jack and Jill thing where people have to pay or whatever, but they do want to have their parties together because they have the same friends and ect.. So, we are going to take them both out and I was wondering what to call the event. Is it still a Jack and Jill? But, I don't want to give people the wrong idea that it is a fundraiser thing. It will just be a big group made up of both of their friends going out bar hopping.