Random thought after having so many weddings to attend this year... why most called "bridal showers" and not "wedding showers" and tend to be all about the bride most of the time? It takes two to get married and I couldn't imagine my FI not being there. After all, most of the guests are HIS family and the gifts are HIS also.
The last 2 showers I went to the FI came after dinner and just opened gifts with the bride. To me that seemed rude like "you can't mingle and have dinner but you can't wait to tear open your gifts"?
I'm not saying this is wrong, I guess I just don't understand it. My grandma said it used to always just be a day to pamper the bride but to me, that is a bachelorette party.
All opinions and what you are doing for yours is welcome. Thanks