My MOH (My sister) is planning a Dual Bridal Shower/ Bachelorette party. I made it clear to my mom that I really want to go out to a local bar. Nothing too fancy- for the Bachelorette Part of the evening. My sister is planning to do the party at the house. My mom is telling me that my sister is hosting so I don't get a say.
I’m extremely disappointed. Am I allowed to be upset? Do I even get a say?