Hello! New to this board, but I have a question that's been bugging me for a while:
My FMIL is hosting a bridal shower for me and has asked me who I would like to invite. FSIL (her daughter) is a bridesmaid, so will obviously be invited, as will MOH, who lives only about an hour's drive away from FMIL's town.
My question is: my other two bridesmaids live out of state and I am almost certain they would decline the invitation since it wouldn't be practical for them to travel that far for just a bridal shower (one BM lives in CA; FMIL lives in WI). Should I let FMIL know to send them invitations anyway? I don't want to make them feel guilty for not being able to attend. MOH is hosting another bridal shower later, which will be around Christmas time and will probably be more convenient for them since they would be in town visiting family anyway.
Should the bridal party get invitations to all shower even if I know they won't be able to attend?
Thank you!