My wedding is going to be in Hawaii where FI and I live. My bridesmaids have asked when the bachlorette party is going to be. My wedding is onthe 15th and we set the 13th as the date so there isno risk of being hungover for the wedding day.
But when the girls ask me WHAT we will be doing for the bachlorette party i was surprised to learn they expect me to plan it too. Its to my understanding that the Bridesmaids plan the party. I live here in hawaii so I am up to suggesting "hot spots" but not planning the whole party.
question 1: am I wrong to think they should plan it
question 2: how do I express that its not my responsibility to plan my own party?
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013