I'm having 3 showers, one from my church (Maid OH), one from my Matron of honor and other BMs, and one from a family church my grandfather pastored.
I know I'm about to sound like a tacky bridezilla, but...my question is - do I have to invite my FMIL? She and I aren't that close - I love her, but she grates on my nerves on a whole new level, especially in public. She won't know anyone at any of the showers and is very, very loud and socially awkward. I don't want this to be the first (horrible) encounter between my family (and friends) and her. What do I do?