I'm pretty sure I know what to do in this situation, but I thought I would tack this story up anyway and get a few other opinions.
I know it is extremely rude to invite people who are not invited to your wedding to the bridal shower. My MOH offered very kindly to throw me a shower, and asked me for a guest list. I gave her the list, which included only ladies who are invited to the wedding and who are close family or very close family friends (like my god mother). I found out recently that my MOH has invited her mother (whom I haven't spoken to in over 5 years and who is NOT on the wedding guest list) to the shower. I don't want to mention anything to my MOH (she knew I hadn't planned on inviting her parents to the wedding) because she tends to get over emotional and I don't want to start a fight or hurt her feelings. I feel like my only option here is to invite her parents to the wedding, even though I don't want to and hadn't planned to. Really, it seems like the simplest solution and the least rude. I'm just a little bitter that I now have to include 2 people on my guest list who I barely know and don't speak to/see.
Thanks for reading! Opinions are welcome and appreciated :-)