My FH and I are long distance. He is currently based in Europe and I will be joining him after the wedding. We do get a "move" through the military, but who knows how long that would take. Because of all that, we were planning on not registering, and not having a bridal shower.
But people keep asking me and offering to plan one!
One of FH's aunts (whom I haven't met yet) sent me a message (a comment on the wedding website...) offering to plan a bridal shower and perhaps have a "silent shower" where apparently, people just mail the stuff to me or something.... On the one hand, I want to just say, "Ok, that sounds great. Thanks, you're so generous and sweet!" and let her feel involved and whatnot. But on the other hand... I don't know how I really feel about (indirectly) asking people to mail me gifts that I may not be able to use for a few months until it gets to our base...
FH doesn't care too much either way, but I still feel bad telling her no...
Suggestions?