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Bridal Shower

I was wanting your all's opinion.  My mom and aunt have offered to throw me a bridal shower, however it seems like I am the one doing all the planning.  My mom will not make a decision without me telling her what the decision is.  I have ask her to just plan the shower and leave me out of it, and just tell me when and where to show up but she want do that.  She thinks that I should make all of the decisions her reasoning is "you have more connections".  I feel like I have a wedding to plan, I also work, and go to school.  I don't have time to plan my own bridal shower that she is suppose to be hosting.  How do I tell her to leave me out of it until the day of??

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    MyNameIsNotMyNameIsNot member
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    edited December 2011
    Just stop doing it.  You're right, you shouldn't be involved.  If she wants you to go do something, say "sorry, mom, but I'm not comfortable planning my own shower" and then don't do it.  
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    edited December 2011
    'Mom, I'm sure that whatever you and Auntie plan will be great.' Then change the subject.
                       
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    edited December 2011
    Thank you all
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