I am a BM in my best friend's wedding, our other good friend is BM, her cousin is the MOH and her future SIL is a BM (only because her mother insisted). The wedding is being held in MA where myself and the other BM lives, but my friend grew up in ME. The MOH now lives in NC. Now that the logistics are set up here comes my question.
Myself, my friend and the MOH have discussed having one shower/bachelorette weekend in MA. However the bride decided she didn't want to have them both in one weekend. The MOH then said she wanted a shower in ME. We were talking about having two showers in both location, but then the MOH said fine let's just do it in MA. Well the bride came home from Christmas in ME and told us that her aunt was planning on throwing her a shower in ME in April and the MOH was only attending that. Should my friend and I try to talk to the MOH of about this or just go about planning a second shower down in MA on our own?
Being recent brides ourselves, my friend and I want to make things as drama-free as possible, but also give the bride what she wants (which was one shower in MA).
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