I am a bride to be who does not drink, and prefer low key gatherings with a lot of laughs, food, and opportunity to bond with my girlfriends. Problem is that my girlfriends like a party with plenty of alcohol included. Having alcohol around does not bother me at all, but can you give me some ideas on how to accomodate both my girlfriends' and my preferences? Maybe a spa afternoon with dinner and slumber party? Help!!!