My mom and dad are divorced and the two families do NOT get along. I have had a family member on each side offer to throw a shower for their respective sides of the family. I am fine with this, i dont want anyone to feel uncomfortable, just want to have a little girls only fun. My fiance's ENTIRE family will be traveling in from out of state so I do not know how or if I should try to include them. Also, which shower should I invite my friends to, or should I just have my friends at the bachelorette/lingerie party?