SO I have great news.....WE bought our rings on monday!!!!! mine will be ready ofr pick up on the 12th, and his will be ready in 4-6 weeks...just one more thing that i can cross off my list..and we had the bridal shower this past weekend, it was ok...about 20 people RSVP'd yes and 5 of them showed up, yes i was not happy at all i went home in tears but kept a strong face in front of my TRUE FRIENDS...but then my FI suprised me with tickets for the Trans Siberian Ochstra for later that night so all ended well, and he made that weekend really good for me...