Marissa,
I leave tomorrow so I won't be here for the last few days leading up to your wedding. I hope everything goes smoothly and that you have the best day. And, I'll give my same advice that I've given others: at the end of the day, it doesn't matter who decided not to come or that the flowers didn't look exactly like you want, you and Jay will still be married. I can't wait to see all your pictures, etc when you get back. Have a great time!!!!!