I am DJ'ing a wedding and recetion for one of my husbands friends and I am not sure if we need to give a gift. We have both known the groom for years , but we are not good friends. (We don't email or talk on the phone with him, we only chat if we see him out.) My husband and I were not originally invited to the wedding, but after I was hired to be the DJ we received an invitation in the mail. I am going to be paid to be there as the DJ and my husband is coming to help me...though he will be sitting at a table with his friends since its technically "his friends" wedding. He went to the bachelor party, but again was only invited because he is friends with the guy who threw the party. Please help!