Hi All, my husband and I were invited to one of his co-worker's weddings in Poland. We really wanted to go but just could not afford it and the time off from work. This is someone my husband has worked with for awhile and he is fairly close with him. So, we have declined but asked where they are registered. We were told they are not registered anywhere and prefer and "old fashioned" gift (i.e. money). This is perfectly fine with me but the question is, how much to give to a wedding you don't actually attend? Do you give more than you would have because you don't have the expense of travel or do you actually give less because you aren't going? For reference, we generally give cash or a gift in the $150-$200 range when we attend a wedding.Thank you!