my FI is really against registering for gifts and is considering just telling people we would like money so we can use it for a down payment. most of the family know we have been talking about a house for a whle now, but i still feel that people without the cash to give would feel uncomfortable. i think we should have at least 1 registry for those who can not afford cash to give. is it tacky to set up a bridal mortgage registry or savings account for wedding gifts? do people really do this?