o.k. our families are not very well off and do not have tons of cash to be throwing around for tons of wedding gifts. However, my fiance and I are fairly successful, I just graduated form college while he is working on his masters degree. a lot of our friends have a bit more cash and, because we are in the twin cities (while Home is rural IL) they have more shopping places at their convenience. So, ,We are registering at Target, but I would also like to register at a place that is a bit nicer for items such as bedding, plate wear, etc. Does anyone have recommendations? Would Macy's be too expensive?? Should I go with a place like bergners, younkers, herbergers.....they are all the same...I don't want to seem rude or like I am trying to put fancy places to register that not everyone can afford.