I have found a cake server set that I really like but I wanted to ask a question before looking into purchasing it! Do most people buy their own server set and have it personalized? Do people tend to buy that for the bride and groom as a gift? I ask because I would hate to buy a personalized set and then have someone get us one thats personalized as well if that is a popular wedding gift idea? Same thing with toasting flutes?? Have alot of you gotten them as a gift or did you buy them youself?