All my life I had wanted a pink and orange kitchen. When I started thinking about registry stuff my FH and I even talked about pink and orange. His favorite color is orange and mine is pink, so it worked out nicely. Now that I am nearing marriage and a more mature mindset I feel more drawn to red, black, and white. I see dishes that are so clean and chic looking, I want the red measuring cups and mixing bowls, there is just something about it that draws me to the bright red contrasted with the dark black. Well, I started registering for kitchen stuff, but have not yet registered for dishes. When telling my mom about the dishes I was thinking about registering for (red and black) her face dropped. She told me that ever since I was in Junior High she has been collecting pink and orange kitchenware. She wanted it to be a surprise at our wedding. Now I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. I like the red and black, but I also like the pink and orange and feel so honored that my mom has been thinking and planning this for so long. I don't know what to do. What would you do if you were in my shoes? My fiance and I like both ideas and are really having a hard time deciding.