Any thoughts out there on good gifts for the host of bridal showers? I personally already have a bit of a complex & feel bad about having 2 showers that really just consist of people giving me gifts when they'll do it again when they come to the wedding. So I don't want to get a "cheap" gift for the host fo the bridal shower when I'll be surrounded by nice gifts from my registries. I was thinking of getting nice monogrammed tote bags from LL Bean (they last forever) and filling them with baked goods and a nice bottle of wine or something. One of my bridal showers is being hosted by 4 women in my mom's book club, and then I just found out my FMIL's church ladies is hosting one too, so probably wouldn't put wine in that one. What amount is acceptable to spend? $20-40? Does seem like a lot if I have to buy multiples for all the hosts.