I never pay attention at weddings to little things like the gift table. When people bring gifts to the reception and put them on the gift table, when do you take them home? I think it would look tacky to collect all of your gifts and load them up in your vehicle before making your grand exit. Do we have someone else load them up in our vehicle, in another vehicle, or just go back and get them later? I don't think we should leave them at the church until we come back from our honeymoon.
Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.