What are everyone's thoughts on honeymoon registries? We have plenty of housewares, dishes, etc. What we could really use is a vacation! I've checked out a couple honeymoon registries online and I can't decide if it's better to use Honeyfund.com where guests order what they're going to pay for online and then give you the money directly at the wedding (cash/check) or Honeymoonwishes.com where guests pay via credit/debit card online, but then you have to incur a 10% fee to the site for this service. Which is better? Or should we just have family let guests know that we would prefer money? Also, is it rude to ask guests to pay for a vacation???