Me and my fiance are having trouble creating a registry. While there is lots of things I can think of that I'd like to have, we both agree that most of the time this stuff just makes life worse in the long run. It's a burden. But we don't want to ask for cash. We're not going on a honeymoon, and pretty much never have any time off to ever travel so asking for honeymoon or travel gifts is out. Aside from a few actual "stuff" items, we've put some supply type items on our registry. Things like Dr. Bronners liquid soap, Seventh Generation liquid dish soap, and a good home first aid kit. But we don't want the whole registry looking like a list of toiletrees and cleaning supplies. We don't want to ask for charity donations in our names, because we do believe that wedding gifts are about helping a couple create a home together. But what do you ask for to make a house a home when you don't want stuff?