My father passed away about 5 years ago, so I have no father to dance with at my reception. My FMIL is traditional and will probably want to have a special dance with her only son. Would it be awkward to have them dance without my dancing with someone? I'm not sure what to do.
Background: This is my second marriage (my fiance's first) and was able to dance with my dad at my first wedding. My younger brother (age 32) will be in the wedding party. And, I have a 12 year old son who will be walking with me down the aisle, but I am QUITE certain he will refuse to dance with me. He is extremely shy. Plus, you know how pre-teens and teens are embarrassed of their parents. I just can't force him to do something for my wedding that he truly will hate - I want him to enjoy the day, too. I'm afraid that if I dance with anyone in place of my dad for a special dance, I will cry my eyes out.
Any thoughts/advice?