I am chipping in for part of the BM dress for each girl because it is a little on the pricy side, but it is what I wanted. Now the tricky part is that two of our mutual friends, who happen to be married (and we were in their wedding), are going to be in our wedding. We discussed way back when we asked them to be in the wedding, we told them we wouldn't be hurt if they had to say no because of finances (which are always tight for them because he works/she doesn't-long story). They said they would work something out and would be happy to be in the wedding. So, here it is a little over 5 months until the wedding, and I brought up getting fitted for tuxes and a BM dress. Well, he asked what the price was for each, and we aren't sure of the tux yet since my fiance has yet to decide (we are going tomorrow night to pick it out) we told him we would get back to him.
So, after hearing this, I expressed concern to my fiance and I was thinking we basically had three options:
a. They are in the wedding and figure out how to pay for stuff themselves, less the $$ we are chipping in for all of the bridal party.
b. They are in the wedding and we foot more of the bill than originally planned on to help them out.
c. We give them a chance (before it is too late) to opt out of being in the wedding.
Now, also add in this....tonight over dinner the husband and wife in question were talking about purchasing authentic NHL Winter Classic jerseys, which if you know anything about sports jerseys, they are not cheap! And, they are going on a trip to Pitt to a NHL hockey game in February.
I don't particularly feel like chipping in more than I was originally going to if they are spending money on other things such as jerseys and trips. All in all, I am a little hot about this subject! So, what does everyone think? Do I have a right to be upset or am I wasting my energy? My feeling is that I want to confront them about this.