My groom-to-be and I are very laid back people and are getting married in October, 2011. Every time I talk to my mother on the phone, she always brings up the smallest details about our wedding and nit-picks my decisions to death! She thinks because she's paying that she can do whatever she wants. Examples: she wants a string-quartet for the ceremony (refer back to the fact that my fiance and I are laid back!), she wants me to make my brother's girlfriend a BM and we aren't close at all, etc...But it's always something! Can I please get advice on how to nicely tell her to stop pushing things on us as we plan our wedding? I don't want to be stressed for the next 6 months!!