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Choosing my MOH, Needing help!!!

soon2bMrsCurlesssoon2bMrsCurless
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Choosing my MOH is seeming to be more difficult then any part of my wedding planning. I have 2 amazing friends. One that I have known since I was 10 years old. She became my best friend when i moved to Florida and we have been friends ever since even between both of us moving and living in different states now. But then I have my best friend here in Indiana where i currently live and ahve lived for about 6 years. We became best freinds not to long ago thanks to my fiance, it was one of his freinds, and we have been inseprable ever since.And i just dont known which one to really choose there both amazing friends and i just cant figure it out!  Any help would be greatly appreciated!!
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Re: Choosing my MOH, Needing help!!!

  • rjodrierjodrie member
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    edited December 2011
    you could always have two MOH or just all bridesmaids. How many other bridesmaids do you have?
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
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    edited December 2011
    Why not have 2 maid of honors? Or you could have no MOH and just BM's like the pp mentioned.
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  • AutumnFairAutumnFair member
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    edited December 2011
    My best friend could not choose between me and our other best friend (were like the Mickey/Donald/Goofy trio) so she just had both of us as MsOH.
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
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    edited December 2011
    Agreed...2 MOH's :)
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  • yankeesprincess25yankeesprincess25
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    edited December 2011
    Choosing my MOH was the hardest thing also.  I made my decision based on not our friendship but her experience.  She is married therefore she went through all the wedding stuff before, she has the time to help me with everything (which is a big one, she goes to bridal shows, cake, dj, and photographer appt, etc. with us).  She has helped with the shopping and even with helping us pick out our invitation style (which we are still not sure about).   It was between her and my sister. After talking to my sister and talking her my feelings she agreed that my friend (whos is also my soon to be sister-in-law) would be the best for all the above reasons.  In your situation I would lean more towards the friend that lives by you because she will be by your  side but I would explain to your other friend that you dont care about her any less you just dont want to put the extra stress on her or you.  hope this helps.  but i do like the idea of two MOH then you would have the best of both worlds two of your best friends and one that would be there to help you with everything.
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  • soon2bMrsCurlesssoon2bMrsCurless
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    edited December 2011
    thank you all so much for your advice! so far all together i have 7 or 8... but i think having them both as MOH would work
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