Is it just me or is your mothers driving you insane also? She thinks that this is her wedding..as if she can go back and re due hers. she always has an opinion on what i should or shouldnt do and if i tell her something then she gets this stupid face if she doesnt like it. she doesnt like the dresses the girls are wearing..this coming from the lady that got married in the 80 and they wore these purple hooped skirt atrocious dresses with hats that looked like they should be riding horses. and all the time she tells me how she got her dress from the goodwill..and that i should have had my aunt do my invites..and she doesnt like japanese food so we shouldnt do the rd there. OMG. and she is "hosting" the shower with my grama and my sis who is my moh and she wants to use my vases for the wedding at the shower and i was like no. i dont want them to get messed up they are for the wedding. and she invited people that i didnt even invite to the wedding! i gave her a list of people to invite. and then when they call and rsvp she calls me and is like who is so and so i dont know them. why did you invite them...i invited them bc they are my friend and you dont know EVERYONE IN MY LIFe. if it wasnt for this wedding i would tell her to go away and leave me alone...thanks for reading my novel..i hope that everyone is having great memories planing their wedding!!